Are you having trouble coping with your child's behavior?

Temperament Testing For Children & Parent Coaching Can Make a Big Difference

Temperament is a way to understand children's personalities without resorting to pathological labels. The goal of Assessment and Coaching is to help parents make adjustments in how they understand and cope with their child's behavior. Each of 9 temperament traits has its own gifts and problems.

The Nine Categories

1. Activity (Low to High)
2. Adaptability (Quick to Gradual)
3. Approach (Curious to Cautious)
4. Intensity ( Low to High)
5. Quality of Mood (Positive to Negative)
6. Sensory Threshold (Low to High)
7. Distractibility ( Rarely to Often )
8. Persistence (Rarely to Often)
9. Biological Rhythmicity (Predictable to Not Predictable)
   

Your Child May Not Have ADD

By understanding the unique gifts and needs of your child and making adjustments in your parenting you can have a much happier child and a more satisfying relationship with your child.
In many situations you will be preventing more serious problems from ever developing.

Temperament Assessment involves the parent filling out a questionnaire that takes between 10-20 minutes depending on the age of the child.

Parent Coaching helps a parent make adjustments in their expectations and parenting strategies based on the individual needs of each child. The parenting strategy that works great for one temperament profile can be a disaster for another profile. In many cases a few sessions of parent coaching can reduce child behavior problems by 50-90 percent.

• Computer scored report $59

• Report plus one feedback session $149

• Report, Feedback session & two coaching sessions $329
  

Temperament is behavioral style: the how of behavior rather than the what or why. Temperamental differences are present at birth; they influence how children behave toward individuals and objects in their environments and how they are affected by the environment.

Temperament characteristics explain in part how individuals with many stresses may do well while some with little or no stress have difficulty.

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While some infants are mild and joyful, others are irritable and cry persistently. Easy babies are so pleasant to care for they may receive (and give back) loads of affection and attention. The fussy, spirited child may scream and kick when given attention. As development unfolds, the fussy child may feel aversive to the caregiver and may receive less nurturance and affection.

This is a striking reality for some parents who have an easy baby followed by a feisty one (or vice-versa). Many parents feel guilty and wonder if they have done something to harm their child because the spirited ones are so much more difficult to raise.

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Temperament may make certain children in certain environments more likely to have these problems. These 'risk factors' occur when there is a mismatch between the child's temperament and some demand in the environment. This creates a poor fit between the child's temperament and the expectations for behavior in the situation. 'Easy' babies and children may have 'protective' factors where mismatches are rare and the rate of conflict is low.

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There are four basic ways to use temperament information to help children and their caregivers:

a) Education about the existence of temperament differences.

b) Individual behavioral assessment of a particular child, using a standardized questionnaire.

c) Environmental intervention; systematically changing the environment to accommodate temperamental characteristics.

d) Support groups to share experiences, discuss parenting techniques, and strategies for coping with a spirited youngster.

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The primary caregiver nearly always has the most experience with the infant or child and is the expert on their behavior, However, the primary caregiver is rarely aware of the major categories of temperament and the boundaries between some of the overlapping dimensions. Ratings using an age specific questionnaire can focus the caregiver's experience and give a temperament profile that is likely to be more valid than general impressions.

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Certain normal temperament characteristics are similar to those regarded as behavioral symptoms of ADHD. Activity level, distractibility, adaptability and persistence are normal personality characteristics but hyperactivity, impulsivity and inattention are facets of ADHD. It is very likely that many children are being diagnosed with ADHD when in fact they do not have a neurobehavioral disability.

Be especially cautious of an ADHD diagnosis when the youngster has recently had a major life change (new school or teacher, neighborhood, baby-sitter), and was previously well adjusted. Many spirited children need time to adjust to changes in rules, routines and expectations before they will be comfortable and settle in. The slow adaptation is not ADHD; it is temperament. The ADHD diagnosis requires six months or more of inappropriate behavior influencing a child in two or more major areas of his or her life.

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All children have temperaments. Even children who have been diagnosed with ADHD may have temperamental characteristics that create "poorness of fit" issues. Assessment and environmental changes to address temperament issues can still be very helpful in many cases.

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